To be totally honest, I wish I knew. Me and my boyfriend were already pretty much like that before I started talking to him about it. I’ve sent him some things I’ve found online, and just told him what I liked about the dd/lg dynamic. But bringing it up is weird, for me at least. I dunno. I hope I’m not like scaring you off or anything! If your boyfriend cares for you, he won’t judge you. When me and my boyfriend started dating, I asked him what he was into, if he had any kinks or anything, which I think is kinda a good way to be like “oh hey btw i like being called princess and being spanked and then cuddles and disney movies after?” I’ve asked this question to a million people and never get a good answer, I hope this kinda helps? I dunno. I’m awful at advice.
Ummm well if you’re referring to the ddlg and abdl community then the name ‘dad’ is not used to my knowledge. That has too much biological sound to it. So who ever you seen say that or who ever told you that ‘dad’ is used in ddlg or abdl, has no idea what the hell they are talking about, or they were into incest play. Which incest has or incest play has nothing to do with abdl or ddlg. That’s all I am going to say on this since ‘dad’ is not something I use or see anyone else use in this community.
Some people choose to call their partner different things; Daddy, Papa, Dad, etc. Just because it’s something that you don’t do doesn’t mean that that person “has no idea what they hell they’re talking about” and it’s pretty fucking rude to say otherwise.
I hate feeling like I’m doing more or trying harder and idk..